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Capture Referee Abuse & Get Rewarded!
Capture referee abuse and send it to us. If your clip gets posted and reaches 100,000 views within 60 days, you earn $250.
Required Watching If You Received This Card
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Now what?
Now that you’ve been identified and tagged it’s time to heal!
In order to heal, we ask you to follow the ever-so-popular and life-changing Facebook page called “OFFSIDE”
This page highlights just how idiotic it is for people like you to act the way you do. Check it out and we hope it helps you
understand – your player just wants your love and support!
The most powerful and effective thing you can do as a parent isn’t getting involved in THEIR game and
yelling at the officials… it’s simply to tell your kid:
“I love watching you play today!”
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50 Individual Cards You Can Personally Hand Out to Cheeseburgers You’re Wanting to Identify or Expose!
Once they get the card, they get a very personalized message from the Cheeseburger Killer himself!
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These Cards Are Perfect For:
- Normal people
- Rational people
- People with common sense
- Emotionally regulated people
- Intelligent people
- Gag gift
- Parents who have kids that officiate
- Parents who hate cheeseburgers
- Associations and leagues wanting to arm field marshals with more than a bright colored vest
- Referees needing a quick and non-public message to cheeseburgers
- Coaches who don’t want parents involved in games
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What Referees & Coaches Are Saying
Real People Using Cheeseburger Cards to Keep Sanity on the Sidelines
How It Works
Three Simple Steps to Expose Cheeseburgers:
STEP-1
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Get your pack of 50 professionally printed Cheeseburger cards for just $49
STEP-2
Identify the Cheeseburger
Spot that parent yelling at refs? Coach crossing the line? Anyone acting like they’re more capable than the sanctioned official? Hand them a card.
STEP-3
Let the Card Do the Talking
The card walks them through their Cheeseburger moment and directs them to www.cheeseburgeranonymous.com for Barlow’s personal message. You stay out of it.
No confrontation. No arguments. No escalation. Just a card, a reality check, and a path to healing.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What exactly is a "Cheeseburger"?
A Cheeseburger is someone who acts irrationally, inappropriately, or aggressively at youth sports events – usually parents yelling at refs, coaches losing their minds, or anyone who forgets it’s just a game. Barlow coined the term to call out this toxic behavior in a humorous but direct way.
Q: Is this legal? Can I really hand these out?
Absolutely. The cards are a non-threatening, non-violent way to communicate a message. You’re not confronting anyone physically or verbally – you’re simply handing them a card that directs them to educational content. It’s no different than handing out a business card.
What happens when someone gets a card?
They visit this page (cheeseburgeranonymous.com), see they’ve been “exposed” as a Cheeseburger, and watch Barlow’s video explaining why their behavior is harmful and how to do better. Some laugh, some get mad, but most get the message.
Will this make people angry?
Some people will get defensive – that’s human nature. But the beauty is YOU don’t have to engage. The card does the work. Most people either laugh it off or actually reflect on their behavior. Either way, you’ve made your point without confrontation.
Can I use these at any sport?
Yes! While Barlow is a soccer referee, Cheeseburger behavior exists in every youth sport – baseball, basketball, football, lacrosse, you name it. The cards work anywhere parents forget how to act like adults.
How many cards should I order?
Each pack comes with 50 cards. For individual referees or coaches, one pack usually lasts a season (hopefully you don’t encounter 50 Cheeseburgers!). For leagues or associations, consider ordering multiple packs to distribute to all officials and field marshals.
Are the cards discreet?
Yes. They’re standard business card size, professional quality. You can hand them out without making a scene. Some refs slip them into a parent’s hand, others leave them on a bench. Totally up to you.
Is this actually helping or just funny?
Both! Yes, it’s humorous and Barlow’s approach is entertaining, but the underlying message is serious – youth sports culture needs to change. These cards spark conversations, make people think, and give officials/coaches a tool to address bad behavior without confrontation. Plus, the Offside page has genuinely helped thousands understand the referee’s perspective.